Choosing the right crystal for self-healing can sometimes seem like a daunting task – especially when you are new to the world of crystals. Let me start by assuring you it is not as complicated as you think it is.
All crystals carry a certain energy and vibration. Heard of the common saying ‘Your vibe attracts your tribe’? It essentially means that the kind of person you are and the kind of energy and vibration you exude, will attract a certain kind of person towards you. It could be folk that share a similar vibration to you, or you can even attract people that help balance out your energy. It is similar with crystals. You attract the crystals that either help elevate you or allow you to find your balance.
Therefore, choosing a crystal is essentially about establishing a connection with the stone. Who you are, your journey, your goals, needs, desires and dreams – these are some of the markers that help you decide what type of crystal you will choose consciously or at a subconscious level.
So let’s get to it! Here are some methods to take into consideration when selecting the ideal stone for you.
Connection with the healing properties of the Crystals themselves
One must remember that our needs from crystals change depending on our life stage and circumstance. Where one stands in life, the challenges and pressures faced, the joys and strengths that surround us, our hopes, dreams and fears – all impact our selection of a crystal. We may outgrow a crystal that we select today for our healing three months or three years down the line depending on the effect of the crystal on us. Thus ‘connecting’ when it comes to choosing a crystal is EVERYTHING.
I have always believed that crystals are a gift from the Universe. Us chancing upon them (or them chancing upon us) is divine timing. So, the next time you are at a store and numerous semiprecious stones lie in front of you – different shapes, colours and sizes, remember the best criteria for selection is to take a deep breath, and go with how you feel.